Tuesday, June 4, 2013

Spread the Positiveness

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

I just want to share with you the input that my mom got from her participation in talk with Prof Muhaya..
I do not know what its tittle but mostly about to bring positiveness attitude in workplace..
What is the most interesting in this talk is the experiment done by Prof Muhaya..

The experiment is want to show that how positive attitude or feeling can make our body stand strong and to show how bad or negative attitude or feeling can cause our body immune drop..

There are two parts..first the effect of our attitude or feeling to our body and second is the effect of people around us attitude to our body..

PM: prof Muhaya, A= audience

First Part:
PM asked the A to lift his right hand to the same level of his chest. Then PM asked A to think about someone whose he really love to communicate, work with or so on. After that, PM pushed down A's hand only with one finger. The result was it was hard for PM to push down A's hand.

Second experiment was PM asked to do the same thing with different question that was to think someone whose he really hate. The result was it was easy to push down A's hand.

Third question was what is A's love to do and last question was what is A's fear..the result was hard for PM to push down the A's hand and easy for PM pushed down A's hand, respectively.


Second part:
PM asked A's eyes being closed and told to other audience to give the feeling toward A. With sign, one for love two for otherwise. After that, PM said one..then, PM tried to push down A's hand. It was hard to push down A's hand while PM said two...so easy PM pushed down A's hand. It was repeatedly done and give the same result. Then, A was told to open his eyes and PM explained to him what kind of other audience need to do.

I was impressed by my mom's story and asked her to do the experiment to me..the result was yes..when our mind and feeling is positive we have strong ability and otherwise if we have negative thinking. It really made me laughed for several minutes for that. Next day, I asked my sister to do the same thing..and she also laughed because it is all true... XD

So, this is why my entry entitle Spread the Positiveness!!
papai
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Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Words

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim..

Ada pepatah Melayu mengatakan "Kerana mulut badan binasa"
Iye..berdasarkan pengalaman hidup 23 years plus..pepatah melayu tu dah banyak kali kene kat aku..
Mostly bila kata2 tu telah dipengaruhi emosi..biasa la perempuan cepat emo kn..so, bila dh emosi...mst la nk menang kan..menegakkn pendirian yg kte rasa..tu yg berdas-das tu..
akibatnya..haaa..nama sendiri yg tercalar..hati juga tercalar..tambah2 bila tewas dlm menegakkan pe yg kta nk tegakkn..time tu rasa dh berpuluh2 setan gelak sakan kt diri sendiri..kuang ajaaaaq!!!

Sekarang zaman dunia di hujung jari..so, tgn pon boleh menjadikan badan binasa..seperti ape ek..penulisan tu mampu menyedarkan pe ntah..alaa..slalu ayat tu selalu diungkapkan dalam buku sejarah...dlm erti pendek tgn juga mmpu menggantikan mulut utk menegakkn pe yg kta rse..silap gaya dan cara..nama kte juga mmpu tercalar..

Akibat siri kecalaran nama dan hati..bkn ketercalaran ye....ter hanya termaktub pd situasi yg tidak disengajakan..haha..igt tu ye..makanya..sekarang aku amat berhati2 dalam penulisan..dalam share2...dalam like2...kalau awal2 diri diselubungi emosi..jgn taip apa2...kalau awal2 ok kemudian tetiba mula diselubungi emosi...ok follow otak stop typing..jgn degil..that it...

Itu tgn...mulut mcm mna lak..haaaahaa..ni yg payah sikit..keberkesanan mengawal mulut dan intonasi serta piching tu hanya 1%...ni among family member...if outside keberkesanan tu almost 80%..kot..bg aku susah nk kawal sbb mgkn dr kecik ak mcm ni..ckp dgn nada tgi..so ble ak ckp nada rendah..org laen ckp ak mcm ckp sendiri..org laen xdgr..lps tu bila sesuatu xkne cara nada ak terus naek..padahal ak xmarah tp org laen ckp ak marah...bagaimanakah ye ingin berkata2 dlm nada yg lemah lembut..?sebab kata2 yg lembut itu mampu mencairkan hati yg keras...terpikir gak adakah hati ak keras so kata2 ak keras..?

Muslim itu salah satu peribadinya lemah lembut..Allah sendiri Maha lemah lembut..menyukai org yg lemah lembut..ak nk jd lemah lembut gaaaaakkkk..so, ia menjadi sesuatu yg slalu berlegar2 dlm minda dan benak ak..

Taip punya taip..tetiba dari kerana mulut badan binasa jd isu lemah lembut lak kn...haaa..xpa..sbb lemah lembut la pasti kata2 dan ayat2 yg dihasilkan menjadi lembut sehingga menyentuh hati qalbu yg laen..xgiteww..hek3...maka pengakhirannya..nama terjaga hati pon terjaga..setan berasap2..hehe..

Marilah berusaha ke arah akhlak yg terpuji..ble akhlak terpuji..disokong kuat dgn ibadah yg diperintahkan..In sya Allah..non muslim akn tertarik dgn Islam..sekian..


Thursday, May 9, 2013

If Tomorrow Never Comes~

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim..

Earlier April this year, i got new experience...experience naik ambulance..time tu saket..tak tahu apa punca..balik dari career fair..dgn saket tulang belakang sampai kaki..xlunch..bila malam temperature bdn trus naek mendadak..ok fine...i got fever..first thought it was normal..penat melampau mungkin..

However, after several hour, demam disertai cirit birit...bayangkan lepas keluar toilet..take time pakai seluar..jln 10 langkah ke bilik..baring...perot start berkeroncong...and in 30 second nk g toilet lg..always be like that sampai bile rasa nk tut tut..buat xlyn...smpi xthn giler2 bru pergi toilet..berlarutan sampai 3 days..makan xyah cakap..mmg melantak bubur..bkn melantak pon just mampu makan setengah senduk je tu pon nk habeskan payah..tekak mmg perit mcm ada somthing..

At third day, red rushes came out..my mom dh risau suruh g klinik..mcm bse jmpe doc mmg kemalasan yg teramat nyata bg sakinah..tp nak baek..g jugak..after check..doc ckp suspect denggi..doc suruh g another klinik tok check darah..sempat berseloroh.."Jangan lak awk mati esok.." thanks doc ats kerisauan doc tu...

Next day, g amek darah kat klinik laen..ok..this is my first time...so, tarik nafas pjg..psikokn dri..juz relak and feel the pain..sempat gak doc tu tnye soklan cepu emas.."Nak jarum besar ke kck?" hek?? ak pon tnye la konon2 professional.." pe bezanye?" doc ckp jarum bsr sakit..jarum kck kurang saket.." ak pon gelak la...then ckp mst la nk jarum kck..haha..ntah2 saja xnk kc ak takut..After got the result, doc tu xckp pon kat ak..dia pgl doc laen..and doc laen tu iv ak..ak jwb dgn perasaan terpingga..yela..lau betol kene denggi staright jela..ni mcm nk buat drama bikin ak terpingga..then, doc laen tu habaq ak suspect denggi..lps tu kene masuk air..

Masuk air pon first time tu...boleh tahan la saketnye..xlama tu doc yg awl td soh g hospital..naek ambulance..waahh ambulance gitew...ble ambulance smpi..naek la dan bergerak menuju ke hospital..feelingnye..mak aihh ganas betol..rse nk tcampak pon ada padahal bunyi siren xdibunyikan..

Sampai hospital kene amek darah ag..ok fineee..yg ni mmg xtahan..first time gak merasa saketnye ble org yg amek darah xreti cari urat..lps tu ckp darah ak beku..then, amek darah second time bru ok..time tgu result darah tu..mcm2 ak pkr..mmg time tu ak dh pkr kalau ak mati mcm mna..yela..dri masih byk kekurangan kn..mmg menginsafkan time saket ni..then, ble result kua..doc ckp ley balik tp esknye still kne dtg amk result..

dan berlanjutan smpi lusanye..lusa tu alhamdulillah..doc ckp ak dh pulih..still bdn lemah2..mkn dh ok sikit...mmg ketara prot mmg rse xsdp sepanjang saket tu..now, sudah pulih..

Lesson yg ak dpt semasa dan selepas sakit =>Sakit penghapus dosa, bersabar ketika sakit, mati lg dekat dr kiamat, timbul kesedaran bekalan sgt sikit and membuatkan ak ingin berusaha memperbaiki amalan and menambah bekalan..sesungguhnya azab Allah sgt pedih bg org2 yg ingkar perintahNya..semoga Allah memberi kekuatan kpdku..amin..

Last but not least..sakit nk tanggal jarum masuk air tu mak aihh..smpi nk terangkat bdn ak..tu pon staf hospital buatkn...poyo je dlm cite kat tv tu cabut sndri..xdan xkua drh bgai...okaayyy...nama pon cite kn..tp itu pembohongan yg amt nyata bg ak..ak tertipu tipah..satu kebenaran telah dibongkar...hak3..